If you think white cis women in pornography are fetishized, you need an update on what the word fetish means. White cis women are the most respected women in pornography by far. They are not a fetish. The most humanizing pornography is pornography of white cis women.
I want to change the world. I want to make people rise up and fight against oppression. I want to inspire students to seek the truth and defend what’s right. I want to save lives. I want to be President. I want to unite people under the common banner of humanity. I want to be read about in history books.
And still, I know that the greatest, most important thing I’ll ever do is be a father.
You shouldn’t have to feel that pressure to find someone “perfect.” Everyone expects you to find a “prince” or “the man that’s going to save you from your petty little life”. What’s wrong with just being happy with who you are? Why do you have to be saved?